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Responsibility role of the parents answers

Responsibility role of the parents answers from the Heaven parents example of Love


Responsibility role of the parents answers : dear Sarah, I have an important question that is important to me and that I would like to ask to the Sky, can you please help me?, I would like to talk about the responsibilities that go with the parenthood on this earth; it is so nice to be a mother, it is so sweet and deeply intense to be able to live the experience of having a child, it is really a gift that is priceless.


However, just like with every thing, there is also the other side of the medal, and for some people the experience can bring with it difficulties, too.


I am a parent who has loved as best as she could, learning to open her own heart more and more, within her own limits, her own errors, making mistakes and trying again, loving and giving her availability and passion. I believe I am a fairly good parent. I am saying ‘fairly’ good because I can not avoid judging myself based on my outcome. I have also suffered from a long period of depression and this has certainly affected my ability to be a good parent. But I never gave up.


I believe that my son is angry inside his Soul. He has recently reached puberty. When I look around I hear and I notice how many young people are calling out for help to the world, in their school and social network circuit …. They are howling : ‘ This is not right’


‘You adults you are not being an example to us’, they say. And they communicate this message in many different ways.


You know, Father, sometimes I feel in my heart a strong impulse to be able to work in the same field as them, a powerful but at the same time a delicate job, that has to do with their emotional world, to be able to reach out to them, to be close to them at least for a little while, in the area where it might be feasible to work with them as you do in schools.


Then I tell myself ‘You not even able to get through to your own son !!!!!!! Where do you think you want to go !!!!!!!!’.


Some parents I know suffer in silence, or are exasperated and do not know what to do anymore and react badly, out of fear.


Now I, too, feel this fear. I can feel my own limit. Every day I watch my son choose what I describe ‘the wrong path’. The external distractions are numerous: gambling, vandalism, smoking, pornographic movies, money, power. The various inputs arrive (you know which inputs) either from his father or from his friends or from school. Everything seems to put pressure on my daily work and also, dictated by example, and everything seems to fascinate him more than anything I could attempt to do. Up until now he has only toyed with all of the above, there have always been limits, and up until now he has kept his trust in me, maintaining an open dialogue. But my fears are growing in proportion to his choices, to his answers.


I have been careful with my refusal to accept him for who he is, to the point where I acknowledged my refusal to accept that he could go astray, my refusal to accept that he could hurt himself so much, and that I can not do nothing about it. Unfortunately, not without some shame but with enough dignity to admit it, with the hope to be able to make a fresh start from somewhere, the refusal to have a son that has the propensity to make these choices and who also refuses to use his sweet sensible and deep side.


Pain and helplessness. I feel as if my role and my capacity as a mother is hanging from a single thread, and perhaps there is still a lot that is missing in my heart to love him the right way. Just like You love us, with sorrow in seeing to what extent we succeed in not respecting our lives and hurting ourselves, nonetheless respecting our choices. However, in my powerlessness, my Father, it is so very difficult for me to keep watching and not know what to do anymore. I know that my son is a wonderful and charming little boy, however I believe that, due to his sorrow or perhaps because of something else that for some other reasons I am not supposed to know, he is choosing to not be present.


My Father I ask for hope or support. For me, but also for all those mothers and fathers who are experiencing the sensation of not being up to the task of being a guide for these kids and that, perhaps, are the first ones to lose their way.


I thank you from the bottom of my heart, Nicoletta


The Virgin Mother Mary answers


My sweetheart I am your Mother, over time I have followed you and your boy during all those moments when you lost your hope, I was close to you, I did put my sweet words into your heart ‘Come on, come on my dear, a child knows your life is an example of Love and do not worry about his errors, you see, he is learning about existence and he is learning that not everybody chooses to be guided by Love, however do continue with your example and over time you will see selfishness will abandon him, certain experiences will abandon him, and the sin will abandon him; Sometimes insistence induces rebellion inside the heart instead of change, but you, who have the courage, do allow your example to be the life teacher. This I already told you many times, and this is what we are going to talk about today.


So, you are the example, always, I can assure you that you are a permanent example. You are an example throughout your existence. Life is in your words, in your behaviour, in how you face each problem, how you relate to others, in the understanding that you express toward life, what happens inside the home and what happens outside. For you and for your family, you are a constant message. And all this is an example for your son.


Do you see, my sweetheart, what you are transmitting? All your world.


If you stop on the road to help, you are transmitting Love to the other person.


If in times of need you intervene to help, you are transmitting Love to the other person.


If you donate Love you are an example of Love to your son and to yourself.


And let’s face specific problems such as drug or violence, or, as you know, the recourse to pornography. I understand you could feel fear that a son may die from drugs, to get involved in murders, looking at women as objects of pleasure and not as hearts and emotions. Certainly life is full of these messages, students who try to change selfishness using force, students who attempt to eliminate their insecurity with the idea of being strong, they even try to replace their agony by adopting the attitude of someone who has understood the world.


Can an example alone bring those hearts to question themselves and choose not to travel down what that you call the wrong way?


I am speaking of time, of mankind’s time, what we are doing today always happened all along, perhaps in different ways than today, but it is up to mankind to decide how to position oneself towards one’s own life.It always happened, whenever life registered an abandonment of Self as a spiritual entity in favour of embracing the Self as materiality, in these moments in the history of mankind, selfishness and abuse of power began to prosper. However it is you, with your example, all together, that bring back the truth and transmit truth.


You need courage to escape violence, courage to face the truth, courage to shake up your brothers, courage to be considered different from the masses of mankind and above all courage to be yourself in a world that appears to not want to change. Your example manifests this courage and this will make others think of their own children and to their own being an example for their own children.


I am explaining this to you so you may transmit all of yourself as an example, in the Love that you have experimented from the birth of your creature.


Example, you are always an example, and talking of insecurity, what kind of example can you give him if you abandon the light of your own heart while guiding him? It is beautiful to see parents always asking themselves ‘Am I doing the right thing? Is this a bad idea?’ and this is not insecurity, it’s Love, so, seek inside your heart for the right thing to do, what you will feel coming from Love will be so right as to remove every doubt. And your Love will be example in concrete terms.


Do you understand this message? Now calm down and trust in your Love and be a constant example of your Love.


Sweet Nicoletta let yourself shine


I embrace you with Love.


Your sweet Mother Mary



Thank you loved Mother


Responsibility role of the parents answers from the Heaven parents example of Love


Responsibility role of the parents answers


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